This is an update to what is happening
with us trying to get our daughters back.
My husband (David) and I have been trying to figure out why I am not
being allowed to see our daughters. I have not seen our daughters in 6 months.
I also needed to read the court reports to tell lawyers what is in them so the
lawyers can decide if they want to help us or not. We have two attorneys
interested in our case. One wants $7500 and the other $2500. I also need to
hire Louisa Lasher. She is an expert on Munchausen By Proxy (MBP). Youthville social worker has diagnosed me
with MBP. She does not know much about MBP. She stated to the lawyers and judge
that it is just a mental health issue. All she needs is therapy and medication.
I was telling everybody that it is a crime. There is no medication for it. I found out from someone, who has been trying
to get the state agency (SRS) and juvenile courts to follow the laws, that many
moms have been accused of MBP by Youthville workers. The mothers are too afraid
to challenge Youthville because they are told if they do not go along with what
SRS wants, you will never see your children again. I had been emailing Dr. Feldman about being
accused of MBP. He emailed me to contact Louisa Lasher. She has told me that
social workers who accuse a person of MBP must have a special
license/certificate to do so plus the social worker must be working with a
doctor of psychology or psychiatry who also has the special license/certificate
to evaluate a person for MBP. The social worker who told the court that I have
MBP does not have the certification/license to make the accusation. There are
no doctors of psychology or psychiatry in Kansas who can evaluate a person for
MBP. Someone has told me that there is possibly a federal which punishes social
workers and doctors who accuse a person with having MBP because the social
worker or doctor did not have the special certification/license to make the
accusation. There is no evidence showing
that I have MBP. Here is the list of issues that the social worker, my two
sisters, and Roy (my dad) use to accuse me of having MBP:
1.
Exaggerate
our daughters’ medical issues. I did not discuss their medical issues with my
family. I would only let them know when Angel and Catrina were going into the
hospital. If we would let them take Angel and Catrina somewhere or baby sit
them, I would let them know how to use their emergency medications and
important health issues they would need to know if an emergency came up.
2.
Hypochondriac-
Roy does not want to believe that our daughters and I have Mitochondrial
Myopathy. He would have to realize that he abused me because I have a disease.
He would spank until he left marks. The worst was when I was 6 years old. I
could not sit or lay on my backside because of the spanking.
3.
I
forced doctors to diagnose us with Mitochondrial Myopathy.
4.
Will
not take Angel and Catrina to the doctor.
5.
Took
too long to get medical tests completed.
6.
Did
not schedule an appointment with a specialist. Social worker is claiming that
they were to see the specialist every 2 years. Since our daughters have been
going to this specialist, the appointments were every 4 years. I had in my
calendar to make the appointment in early 2012.
7.
Invested
in our daughters being sick. The social worker is stating this because of me
making sure that schools, baby sitters, respite care, Special Olympics, and
other organizations they belong to know how to take care of them appropriately
because of their disease and the unusual seizures Angel has.
8.
Improperly
gave emergency seizure medication even though I followed doctor’s orders.
9.
I
know too much about Mitochondrial Myopathy.
10.
Angel
and Catrina’s health improved significantly since going into foster care. There
are no doctors’ reports to back this up. I saw the social worker argue and
bully doctors and therapists that have taken care of them for years. These
doctors and therapists refused to submit a report stating that their health has
significantly improved because their health has had small improvements, stayed
the same, or got worse in different areas. The doctors and therapists were not
happy about new muscle issues and Angel’s life skills regressed because the
foster care workers and foster parents did not follow doctors’ and therapists’
orders.
11.
I
interfered with the dentist working on Catrina’s teeth. This did not happen.
The dentists kept encouraging me to get closer to her head so she could see me
and be more at ease. Angel and Catrina have anxiety about going to the dentist
because they were victims of Small Smiles- dentists would not allow parents go
with their children into the procedure rooms, tied children down, and would use
a dental tool to make children sit still (it is pointy and the dentist or tech
would poke it into the child’s gum if the child squirmed or cried too much).
12.
I
wanted doctor’s letter attached to the IEP.
13.
I
want schools to follow doctors’ orders and safety protocol.
14.
I wanted Angel and Catrina to wear their leg
braces as instructed by the doctor and therapists.
15.
I
want Angel to have access to her wheel chair when she feels over fatigued. This
was by doctor’s orders. She is also to use the wheel chair when she has had a
medical procedure where she had to be sedated. She may need to use it when she
cannot wear her leg braces because of sores or injury to the leg or foot. This
is to prevent her lactic acid from getting too high. El Dorado Middle School
did not follow doctor’s orders which led to Angel’s lactic acid getting too
high. This can cause damage to the muscles.
16.
I
have erratic behavior. I was told that there is no reason for me to be angry. I
was also told crying is not allowed.
17.
I
have the same disease as our daughters.
18.
I
want to isolate them by home schooling them.
19.
I
favor Catrina over Angel.
20.
I
allow Catrina to manipulate and act like a baby.
David has been seeing our daughters
since the end of June. We are very concerned about them. David has told me that
they are not as happy as when the first visitation took place. Catrina told him
that they spend most of the day in the basement. They were not happy that they
did not go to MDA camp. Angel talks very little. She is not using complete
sentences. She is autistic.
I
sent the chief justice of family law and the judge who is handling our case a
letter which tells of the lies that are in the court reports. I sent in the
letter the proof needed to show that the information in the court reports are
lies.
I
am also preparing to be in a documentary about corruption in the justice
system. I receive emails giving me updates on the movie. William Windsor is the
one doing the movie –Lawless in America. He is to be in Wichita, KS around
October 9, 2012. I am also going to Washington, DC to talk to senators and
representatives about the corruption in juvenile courts.
Since our primary is August 7, I made posters explaining why I am
supporting O’Connor for Sedgwick County DA. Two of the posters also let our
neighbors and friends know about Kids for Cash.
I am hoping to have them home before their birthdays and school
starting. I made a chart comparing socialization when at home and the home they
are staying at right now. I will attach the chart.
I
am very worried about Angel and Catrina’s mental health. They both developed
mental health issues after going into foster care.
