Update Letter

This is an update to what is happening with us trying to get our daughters back.  My husband (David) and I have been trying to figure out why I am not being allowed to see our daughters. I have not seen our daughters in 6 months. I also needed to read the court reports to tell lawyers what is in them so the lawyers can decide if they want to help us or not. We have two attorneys interested in our case. One wants $7500 and the other $2500. I also need to hire Louisa Lasher. She is an expert on Munchausen By Proxy (MBP).  Youthville social worker has diagnosed me with MBP. She does not know much about MBP. She stated to the lawyers and judge that it is just a mental health issue. All she needs is therapy and medication. I was telling everybody that it is a crime. There is no medication for it.  I found out from someone, who has been trying to get the state agency (SRS) and juvenile courts to follow the laws, that many moms have been accused of MBP by Youthville workers. The mothers are too afraid to challenge Youthville because they are told if they do not go along with what SRS wants, you will never see your children again.  I had been emailing Dr. Feldman about being accused of MBP. He emailed me to contact Louisa Lasher. She has told me that social workers who accuse a person of MBP must have a special license/certificate to do so plus the social worker must be working with a doctor of psychology or psychiatry who also has the special license/certificate to evaluate a person for MBP. The social worker who told the court that I have MBP does not have the certification/license to make the accusation. There are no doctors of psychology or psychiatry in Kansas who can evaluate a person for MBP. Someone has told me that there is possibly a federal which punishes social workers and doctors who accuse a person with having MBP because the social worker or doctor did not have the special certification/license to make the accusation.  There is no evidence showing that I have MBP. Here is the list of issues that the social worker, my two sisters, and Roy (my dad) use to accuse me of having MBP:

1.       Exaggerate our daughters’ medical issues. I did not discuss their medical issues with my family. I would only let them know when Angel and Catrina were going into the hospital. If we would let them take Angel and Catrina somewhere or baby sit them, I would let them know how to use their emergency medications and important health issues they would need to know if an emergency came up.

2.       Hypochondriac- Roy does not want to believe that our daughters and I have Mitochondrial Myopathy. He would have to realize that he abused me because I have a disease. He would spank until he left marks. The worst was when I was 6 years old. I could not sit or lay on my backside because of the spanking.

3.       I forced doctors to diagnose us with Mitochondrial Myopathy.

4.       Will not take Angel and Catrina to the doctor.

5.       Took too long to get medical tests completed.

6.       Did not schedule an appointment with a specialist. Social worker is claiming that they were to see the specialist every 2 years. Since our daughters have been going to this specialist, the appointments were every 4 years. I had in my calendar to make the appointment in early 2012.

7.       Invested in our daughters being sick. The social worker is stating this because of me making sure that schools, baby sitters, respite care, Special Olympics, and other organizations they belong to know how to take care of them appropriately because of their disease and the unusual seizures Angel has.

8.       Improperly gave emergency seizure medication even though I followed doctor’s orders.

9.       I know too much about Mitochondrial Myopathy.

10.    Angel and Catrina’s health improved significantly since going into foster care. There are no doctors’ reports to back this up. I saw the social worker argue and bully doctors and therapists that have taken care of them for years. These doctors and therapists refused to submit a report stating that their health has significantly improved because their health has had small improvements, stayed the same, or got worse in different areas. The doctors and therapists were not happy about new muscle issues and Angel’s life skills regressed because the foster care workers and foster parents did not follow doctors’ and therapists’ orders.

11.    I interfered with the dentist working on Catrina’s teeth. This did not happen. The dentists kept encouraging me to get closer to her head so she could see me and be more at ease. Angel and Catrina have anxiety about going to the dentist because they were victims of Small Smiles- dentists would not allow parents go with their children into the procedure rooms, tied children down, and would use a dental tool to make children sit still (it is pointy and the dentist or tech would poke it into the child’s gum if the child squirmed or cried too much).

12.    I wanted doctor’s letter attached to the IEP.

13.    I want schools to follow doctors’ orders and safety protocol.

14.     I wanted Angel and Catrina to wear their leg braces as instructed by the doctor and therapists.

15.    I want Angel to have access to her wheel chair when she feels over fatigued. This was by doctor’s orders. She is also to use the wheel chair when she has had a medical procedure where she had to be sedated. She may need to use it when she cannot wear her leg braces because of sores or injury to the leg or foot. This is to prevent her lactic acid from getting too high. El Dorado Middle School did not follow doctor’s orders which led to Angel’s lactic acid getting too high. This can cause damage to the muscles.

16.    I have erratic behavior. I was told that there is no reason for me to be angry. I was also told crying is not allowed.

17.    I have the same disease as our daughters.

18.    I want to isolate them by home schooling them.

19.    I favor Catrina over Angel.

20.    I allow Catrina to manipulate and act like a baby.

David has been seeing our daughters since the end of June. We are very concerned about them. David has told me that they are not as happy as when the first visitation took place. Catrina told him that they spend most of the day in the basement. They were not happy that they did not go to MDA camp. Angel talks very little. She is not using complete sentences. She is autistic.

 I sent the chief justice of family law and the judge who is handling our case a letter which tells of the lies that are in the court reports. I sent in the letter the proof needed to show that the information in the court reports are lies.

 I am also preparing to be in a documentary about corruption in the justice system. I receive emails giving me updates on the movie. William Windsor is the one doing the movie –Lawless in America. He is to be in Wichita, KS around       October 9, 2012. I am also going to Washington, DC to talk to senators and representatives about the corruption in juvenile courts.

  Since our primary is August 7, I made posters explaining why I am supporting O’Connor for Sedgwick County DA. Two of the posters also let our neighbors and friends know about Kids for Cash.

  I am hoping to have them home before their birthdays and school starting. I made a chart comparing socialization when at home and the home they are staying at right now. I will attach the chart.

 I am very worried about Angel and Catrina’s mental health. They both developed mental health issues after going into foster care.